@ChrisJWilson @adders I think this is advice I could use. Maybe the feeling of jealousy is a reflection of ambition? Wanting to have the same or similar success you see the other people have. Ambition is a good thing if fed and cared for properly, I think. Turning that into an act that supports others helps them and allows you to express yourself in some way. I know nothing about sailing but I love the expression “a rising tide lifts all ships”.